Parabéns

Always and forever with me

Se a ansiedade matasse...

...TIC TAC...

Crazy little things

Oh little things how important you are!
Funny how the tinniest thing can be so important and make a huge difference.
Something like a baby's feet, so small, can be bigger than the world.
Ignore nothing, we all matter, every moment counts.
Cherish the past and embrace the future!

Love more, 

Live more

LOVE

Quem não gosta de animais não é boa pessoa.PONTO

Um pequeno apontamento...

Amor incondicional...
Isso existe? Amar alguém de forma completa, sem condições, sem restrições, sem reservas, doar-se sem pedir nada em troca e aceitando tudo? Afinal o que é isto? Não estou a falar do amor por um filho porque esse sim acredito plenamente que seja incondicional, imensurável e infindável... não é a isso que me refiro, nem quero ir por aí.
Estou aqui a divagar sim, sobre amar aquela pessoa que achamos que nos completa, que nos faz feliz, com quem queremos estar. Será possível amar alguém assim mais que tudo? Mais que a nós mesmos? Isto porque o ser humano é egoísta, nós estamos com as pessoas de quem gostamos porque essas pessoas nos fazem sentir felizes, ou seja, gostamos do ou dos, sentimentos que essas pessoas nos fazem sentir. As condições existem sempre, o tempo todo? Ou pelo contrário a ausência de qualquer condição é real, só às vezes, o tempo todo, ou nunca? As pessoas são mesmo capazes de amar desta forma ou serão só os animais que o conseguem fazer?
Será que o amor é tudo ou nada? Ou temos/damos tudo ou não temos/damos nada?

 ...O mundo não é preto e branco...

E dar apenas sem receber... é saudável? É bom? É amor? É lindo e fantástico fazer os outros felizes, e isso claro tem as suas recompensas... mas e dar até tal ponto que nos esquecermos de nós?
Prefiro estradas com dois sentidos do que vias de sentido único. Para haver um Nós, tem de haver um Eu e um Tu. Se algum destes desaparece ou de esbate o Nós também se irá diluir e enfraquecer.
Sei lá... tudo isto são ideias soltas que por vezes se passeiam na minha mente... divagações... não necessariamente crenças inabaláveis e imutáveis, nada disto é vinculativo.
E sei que nem sempre faço muito sentido nestas divagações, mas nem tudo tem de fazer sentido, nem tudo tem de ser uma verdade pura... neste momento apetece-me apenas... escrever.
Eu sei sim que sou alguém incondicionalmente em mudança, e felizmente as minha opiniões, crenças, sentimentos e desejos vão mudando e evoluindo. Ficar estática é que não!

Lazy Sunday

I'm in a lazy mood... and is there a better day to dedicate ourselves to laziness than a Sunday morning?
Breakfast in bed, coziness, sweet sweet music...

...This is the thing...

...Everything has an ending...

The world can wait a bit more

Happy happy days!

I couldn't be happier today! The future looks bright and shinny, some pages will be turned, new history will be written. Even tears of joy fall, love is everywhere and surrounds us all. No matter the distance, we are together always!

Good things do happen!

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A taste for the unattainable

I have a taste for the unattainable...
I like to grab the untouchable. I have dreams and I make them real, and my smile is my own, I owe it to everyone and at the same time, I do not owe it to anyone.
To have, to hold and to let go...
Live fast, love slow... I have it all, the fire and the snow.
If you don't hurry... I can´t wait... there´s still so mutch to see and live.
I look for what´s inside, the shape's not that important, the content is. The imperfections make us unique and perfect in our own way.
Smoke and mirrors, that´s where you gaze now... and it'll all turn to shatters... and then you'll find that once again you're alone.
You're standing still and I'm gone... long gone.
Because I have a taste for the unattainable... and I always want more, and I keep going forward and I get what I want...
If you dream it, make it real.

The unattainable is to be attained. 

To reflect upon

A red this text onde and found it to be interesting, so here it is.

ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER? 

During a seminar, a woman asked, "How do I know if I am with the right person?" The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author. Here's the answer. Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown. The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found. People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling. Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! 

I'm sad and I miss you

Por mais entretida e ocupada que ande por estes dias, o meu pensamento acaba sempre por se voltar para ti... não fosse esta a altura do ano que mais detesto... não consigo evitar que tal mexa comigo, é simplesmente impossível. Num momento estou tranquila e feliz e de repente lembro-me de ti e lá dói aquela saudade acompanhada daquele sentimento de impotência de que não há nada a fazer... Enfim... a tua ausência forçada faz parte de mim, mudou-me e tornou-me em quem eu sou hoje.
Há coisas que guardo só para mim, mas que por vezes deixo transparecer sem querer, acho que os meus olhos e a minha atitude ou postura reflectem o que sinto.
Agora neste momento estou triste e não há como evitá-lo ou negá-lo... Mas se estou triste é sinal de que sinto, não sou insensível (embora em certos momentos fugazes o desejasse ser)... vou então ficar triste...e esperar que passe, já que as tristezas também têm de ser vividas e sentidas... já melhoro...

Para ver e reflectir...

...Crazy talk...

# 1: I can't stand to be alone anymore!
# 2: When were you ever alone?

# 1: You know... I want to find love... a real love!
# 2: Like in fairytales? (laughs)

# 1: NO! Not like that duh!
# 2: Good... because I think we're out of princes.

# 1: Stop joking! I'm empty... I really need love.
# 2: Are you saying you don't have love in your life?

# 1: Yes... that's what I'm saying.
# 2: Honey... I have never seen you be without love. Do you just want to be in a couple?

# 1: I want to have a special someone. I should've found that person by now! I'm not getting any younger you know?! And neither are you! How can you be so calm? Don't you worry about it?
# 2: I worry about a lot of things... and you, from where I stand, you have a lot of special someones in your life... you know you can't deny it. So STOP feeling pity on yourself, and crying for what you think you don't have and open your eyes and see what you have and how you can accomplish what you don't have yet.

# 1: I'm unhappy! I need someone to make me happy...
# 2: Oh babe... there's noone that will make you happy... you need to find within yourself the ability to be happy!

# 1: But I'm incomplete and I need to find my better half.
# 2: There's no such thing as a better half! You are a complete person! You're not a half person, so there's no half of you lost in the world waiting to be found...

# 1: Well... What you're saying makes sense... but still... I want to go out together and hold hands!
# 2: Here... you can hold my hand whenever you want to... Let's go and have a beer or two.

(...)

Devil's dance

Wanna dance? Wanna twist?
I've seen this before
Here I am,
you placed the knife
I went against it
Now as I turn
you twist it a bit more
But I still stand!
Enough of this crash and burn.
This is my life...
No nothing...no pain no gain.
This time I won't take the blame.
Are you calling for the devil?
Don't care if you burn in my flame